Failure to recognize the proper rank and precedence of a guest is equivalent to an insult not only to individuals and their positions, but to the organizations, parastatals and countries they represent. SOURCE: Protocol: McCaffree and Innis.
At unofficial functions, in order not to ruffle feathers, it is best to bring to bear the protocol that determines governmental, ecclesiastical, and diplomatic precedence in official life. More light is thrown on this in this link: https://josypatschoolofetiquetteandprotocol.com/precedence-in-protocol/
There has been strained relationships, open and embarrassing quarrels, even guest threatening to leave events because of non -recognition of rank.
Take the case of Femi Taiwo and Mrs. Bolanle Ambode, the First Lady of Lagos State.
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